Googlers - Wasted Days and Wasted Nights - Freddie Fender
As of midnight last night, Saturday, Rob has been awake for 36 hours. He did not come home last night, so I have no idea yet if he has slept at all. When he left the house at 9:00 last night, he took his meds with him and said he was "probably" going to sleep over someone's house. When I asked who's house, he said he did not know. When I told him I was pretty sure he had a plan, he said he did not. I asked him where he was going right then, and he said he was picking up the new girl. When I told him he was not spending the night with her, he said that I knew they were not "like that", they were just friends. I told him friends or not, he wasn't spending the night with a girl. He slunk out of the house without agreeing or disagreeing.
The other day Rob and his BF very excitedly told me their plans for me when they get their first paycheck (for the nonexistent jobs that they have still not applied for). They are going to buy an MP3 capable stereo for my Mini, some new speakers, and a subwoofer. Rob said my speakers were "crap". I refrained from reminding Rob that my speakers were fine until he blew one of them out. Whenever Rob has told me the in the past of his plans for me when he has some cash, I have always responded the same way. "Buy your own gas, maintain your own car, and contribute to the car insurance. That's what I would really like you to do with your own money, Rob. If I didn't have to worry about the expenses for your car, I would have enough cash to take care of the rest." I didn't waste my breath with that spiel again the other day, talking to Rob lately has been like talking to a hyperactive 4 year old. I'm just not getting through.
His therapist appointment is on Tuesday, as well as the court date for the speeding ticket. I have no idea what condition he is going to be in by Tuesday, and I am not sure how I'm going to attempt to manage his sleep schedule for the next two days to ensure that he can wake up for court at 6:30 a.m. Tuesday, and stay awake until after his 2:00 p.m. appointment with the therapist. I've already had to cancel the therapist last week when he finally fell asleep four hours prior to the appointment after being awake for 24 hours.
Googlers - Wasted Days and Wasted Nights - Freddie Fender
As of midnight last night, Saturday, Rob has been awake for 36 hours. He did not come home last night, so I have no idea yet if he has slept at all. When he left the house at 9:00 last night, he took his meds with him and said he was "probably" going to sleep over someone's house. When I asked who's house, he said he did not know. When I told him I was pretty sure he had a plan, he said he did not. I asked him where he was going right then, and he said he was picking up the new girl. When I told him he was not spending the night with her, he said that I knew they were not "like that", they were just friends. I told him friends or not, he wasn't spending the night with a girl. He slunk out of the house without agreeing or disagreeing.
The other day Rob and his BF very excitedly told me their plans for me when they get their first paycheck (for the nonexistent jobs that they have still not applied for). They are going to buy an MP3 capable stereo for my Mini, some new speakers, and a subwoofer. Rob said my speakers were "crap". I refrained from reminding Rob that my speakers were fine until he blew one of them out. Whenever Rob has told me the in the past of his plans for me when he has some cash, I have always responded the same way. "Buy your own gas, maintain your own car, and contribute to the car insurance. That's what I would really like you to do with your own money, Rob. If I didn't have to worry about the expenses for your car, I would have enough cash to take care of the rest." I didn't waste my breath with that spiel again the other day, talking to Rob lately has been like talking to a hyperactive 4 year old. I'm just not getting through.
His therapist appointment is on Tuesday, as well as the court date for the speeding ticket. I have no idea what condition he is going to be in by Tuesday, and I am not sure how I'm going to attempt to manage his sleep schedule for the next two days to ensure that he can wake up for court at 6:30 a.m. Tuesday, and stay awake until after his 2:00 p.m. appointment with the therapist. I've already had to cancel the therapist last week when he finally fell asleep four hours prior to the appointment after being awake for 24 hours.