I think, perhaps, this "scientific profile matching on deep components" is crap.
To discuss..
Our first convo was 6 hours. Yes. 6 hours. We discussed everything from brain surgery to being a first generation child of a single mother to human sexuality to personal odd dating stories to religion to self made spiritual quests by non spiritual people.
He called again tonight. It was 4 hours. We discussed all the questions of our initial attraction to all possible relationship obstacles to a deep seated shameful fear of having mutant children to if tattoos should be covered at formal functions and the reasons why people compromise and even if and when people compromise.
Yesterday he discussed the oddness of the situation and his attraction to me with a colleague friend, and it was thoroughly dissected by both. Yesterday I thoroughly discussed the oddness and attraction of me to him with M, and it was thoroughly dissected. We both admitted, we are very confused.
He is a doctor.
I am a patient.
He is a psychiatrist.
I am blindingly self aware.
He is a white collar professional.
I am an artist. Or something. And unemployed.
He totally analyzed me.
I analyzed right back and told him to stop projecting onto me.
I am concerned about him being in a power position.
he told me he is concerned about me knowing he is in a power position.
We are POLAR opposites when it comes to lifestyle. He is a neurotic clean freak who washes all his clothes BY HAND.
I told him I never wear socks and wash 1 pair of underpants at a time in the washer just because I can.
He cleans his apartment for fun and wears expensive shoes.
I told him I wear Crocs and Vans. With no socks.
He puts away at least 15,000 bucks a year in his savings.
I told him my total retirement savings is 30,000
He thinks a nutritionally complete soy bar with amino acids that would replace food is a good idea.
I told him I sometimes eat nothing but imported salami and gouda.
I am going to India for two months to teach.
He is going west to a professional conference.
I blog and write my autobiography.
He writes articles for medical journals.
I am not sure what this is. But I do think it will be interesting. And some very entertaining blogging and writing at least.
And we are going out next Thursday.
And if I don't get any comments and strong opinions or insight on this post, I will be very surprised, because MAN I need them.
Even if I did get the equivilent of 2000 dollars worth of therapy in the past 3 days, if I go by his charging rate.
I think, perhaps, this "scientific profile matching on deep components" is crap.
To discuss..
Our first convo was 6 hours. Yes. 6 hours. We discussed everything from brain surgery to being a first generation child of a single mother to human sexuality to personal odd dating stories to religion to self made spiritual quests by non spiritual people.
He called again tonight. It was 4 hours. We discussed all the questions of our initial attraction to all possible relationship obstacles to a deep seated shameful fear of having mutant children to if tattoos should be covered at formal functions and the reasons why people compromise and even if and when people compromise.
Yesterday he discussed the oddness of the situation and his attraction to me with a colleague friend, and it was thoroughly dissected by both. Yesterday I thoroughly discussed the oddness and attraction of me to him with M, and it was thoroughly dissected. We both admitted, we are very confused.
He is a doctor.
I am a patient.
He is a psychiatrist.
I am blindingly self aware.
He is a white collar professional.
I am an artist. Or something. And unemployed.
He totally analyzed me.
I analyzed right back and told him to stop projecting onto me.
I am concerned about him being in a power position.
he told me he is concerned about me knowing he is in a power position.
We are POLAR opposites when it comes to lifestyle. He is a neurotic clean freak who washes all his clothes BY HAND.
I told him I never wear socks and wash 1 pair of underpants at a time in the washer just because I can.
He cleans his apartment for fun and wears expensive shoes.
I told him I wear Crocs and Vans. With no socks.
He puts away at least 15,000 bucks a year in his savings.
I told him my total retirement savings is 30,000
He thinks a nutritionally complete soy bar with amino acids that would replace food is a good idea.
I told him I sometimes eat nothing but imported salami and gouda.
I am going to India for two months to teach.
He is going west to a professional conference.
I blog and write my autobiography.
He writes articles for medical journals.
I am not sure what this is. But I do think it will be interesting. And some very entertaining blogging and writing at least.
And we are going out next Thursday.
And if I don't get any comments and strong opinions or insight on this post, I will be very surprised, because MAN I need them.
Even if I did get the equivilent of 2000 dollars worth of therapy in the past 3 days, if I go by his charging rate.