
I love this old saying:
"The best time to plant an oak tree is 20 years ago. The second best time is today."
Who among us doesn't have at least some feeling of regret about actions not taken in the past? The decisions made in youth often take many years to reach full fruition in later life. Maybe you wish you had mastered a second language, learned how to play a musical instrument, gained skill at a sport, developed your artistic ability, or engaged in any other dream that would be reaping deep emotional dividends today.
Rather than mourning the lost opportunities of the past, aren't your energies better spent developing old or new areas of fulfillment
now? I once heard a great story about a man who knew wished he had gone to law school, but at age 45 he felt it was too late. "The best I could do is go part-time and that would take me at least 5 years to complete my coursework. I'll be 50 by then!" His best friend responded by asking "How old will you be in five years if you
don't go to law school?" The point is well made: don't use lost opportunities as an excuse to not begin the effort of bringing forth your dreams today.
Remember that:
Frank Lloyd Wright designed the famous Guggenheim Museum, generally recognized as the crowning achievement of his illustrious career, at 80.
Grandma Moses started painting in her 70's.
Winston Churchill made his biggest contributions to world history beginning at age 66.
Cervantes didn't write "Don Quixote" until he was 58.
Ray Kroc opened his first McDonald's at age 52.
Raymond Chandler didn't publish a book until 51.
Charles Darwin wrote "On the Origin of Species" at 50.
Ronald Reagan didn't even get into politics until 44 and was elected President at 69
The opera diva Beverly Sills barely made a living until she was almost 40.
Harry Truman was a bankrupt businessman at age 37.
Julia Child didn't learn to cook until her late 30's.
The hugely influential architect and visionary Buckminster Fuller was bankrupt at 32
What will they say about YOU?
No effort that you enjoy expending is tiresome. Heading in the direction of your dreams isn't exhausting.....it's exhilarating! Any master gardener will tell you that late blooming plants often display the most beautiful foliage.
If you're still not convinced, let the words of the wise punster inspire you:
"Remember that the mighty oak was once a nut like me!"
Rather than mourning the lost opportunities of the past, aren't your energies better spent developing old or new areas of fulfillment now? I once heard a great story about a man who knew wished he had gone to law school, but at age 45 he felt it was too late. "The best I could do is go part-time and that would take me at least 5 years to complete my coursework. I'll be 50 by then!" His best friend responded by asking "How old will you be in five years if you don't go to law school?" The point is well made: don't use lost opportunities as an excuse to not begin the effort of bringing forth your dreams today.
Remember that: No effort that you enjoy expending is tiresome. Heading in the direction of your dreams isn't exhausting.....it's exhilarating! Any master gardener will tell you that late blooming plants often display the most beautiful foliage.
If you're still not convinced, let the words of the wise punster inspire you: