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My husband doesn't want to have sex with with me; he said that we must wait for 1 year!

Posted Sep 04 2008 2:01am
In order to give you a useful answer to your personal problem, I'd need to know more details about your personal situation... For example, if you're a very young bride (as it is sometimes the case in India), then your husband could just be very kind, not wanting to hurt you...
Try to calmly and tenderly talk to him, asking him the real reason for which he won't touch you.
Because, you see, if you are indeed very young and if he is older than you are (maybe already with a sexual experience), he already could caress yo and let you climax that way, - even without penetration for the moment...
To build a strong and long-lasting couple relationship, Imani, you need first to learn to communicate with him and express your wishes and expectations, - as well as to listen to his, of course.
Try to have genuine conversations with him everyday, without any shyness, but frankly, naturally and with simplicity.
You can speak about what you both have done during the past day, as well as about your shared future, your families and everything that you find of some interest. The important is to acquire the habit of talking together without any fear.
You see, you need both to become very good friends in order to stay in love for a long time. And for that purpose, sex is not enough, you need also a whole series of other "contact points", you need to share some activities, projects, tastes, ideas, fields of interest, dreams, etc. And above all, you always need to maintain a good, daily communication.
Think also, both of you, to often show your tenderness and to value each other's qualities and actions.
All these points are largely developed in my book, the one you have seen on my website. It is filled with a crowd of useful information. I'm sure it will help you both to build a solid relationship together.
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