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The Affair, part 5 by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living Part 1Part 2Part 3Part 4Late summer/fall 1998:That was it, wasn't it? That was my chance to stop things before they progressed. *sigh* I knew that but thought I could control ... Read on »
The Affair, part 4 by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living Part 1Part 2Part 3Spring/Summer 1998: Somewhere during this time, my husband and I began exploring the idea of an open marriage. Neither my husband nor I had much experience ... Read on »
The Affair, part 3 by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living Part 1Part 21997: My husband and I fell into a DINKS (dual income, no kids) routine. We luxuriated in our new status as middle income. We spoiled ourselves rotten. I joined t ... Read on »
The Affair, part 2 by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living This is very uncomfortable for me to relive... but, it has come back into the forefront of my mind and I must process it. Please bear with me.Read Part 1Fall 1996: During this ... Read on »
The Affair, part 1 by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living This is the first of a 10 part series about the affair I had during my marriage. I realize that this might be uncomfortable for many to read. Perhaps you've been through this ... Read on »
Lover of Lingerie by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living I suppose since Rascal and I only see each other twice a month, it is only natural that whatever I'm wearing seems to be practically torn from my body when we're finally alone ... Read on »
Rebelling by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living I am a very disciplined person. When my friend Marie and I lived together, she used to make fun of me because I always paid my bills on time (obsessively so) and I would never ... Read on »
Innate by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living When you fall in love with someone, you learn what gives them pleasure. Maybe they like to hold hands.... or to always have a heavy arm on your shoulder. Maybe they like gent ... Read on »
Blogging my BFF, Hardheaded men & Gratitude by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living I went to lunch with my best friend De yesterday (Veteran's Day). I miss her so much. We rarely get to see each other. She is feeling her bliss right now after being down for ... Read on »
When's the wedding? by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living There are some people in my life that I won't talk to about Rascal. I won't mention that his children came into town with him this weekend. I won't discuss how his boys adore ... Read on »
Yoga for the Heroes by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living All day long I've been sneezing and coughing my head off. I couldn't even take a deep breath without breaking into a full on coughing fit. But the ex offered to take the kids ... Read on »
A great weekend and its lingering effects by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living I feel like shit. I don't think its anything other than a cold or allergies. Nose is running. Sneezing. Eyes watering. Tickle in the throat. Ugh. The worst part of it is tha ... Read on »
Aiming for the fairway by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living Over the weekend, while Rascal was visiting with his sons, our hamster went missing. The kids, all 4 of them, began the quest to solve the mystery of the missing hamster like ... Read on »
Weird random week by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living This week has felt a bit off for some reason. I wonder if Monday night's full moon sent the cosmos into craziness or something. It started off well enough... Monday, I ran i ... Read on »
Embrace your feminine side by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living As a single mom, and I'm sure all single parents have noticed this, I definitely get use out of both my feminine side and my masculine side. I have to be mom and dad. I have ... Read on »
Since my divorce... by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living I have learned quite a bit about myself. I have accomplished much. I'm not even the same person I was when I was married. I was contacted by someone wanting to hear my post-d ... Read on »
Divorce, the In-laws and Facebook by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living If you are my in-real-life friend on Facebook, you will know that Rascal and I are very obviously in love. We try not to get too mushy but yeah, we get pretty mushy. Give us a ... Read on »
Triggers by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living My ex-husband is an alcoholic. Now, he would never admit this, mind you. And I never saw it. I'd never been around it and didn't recognize the signs. When we dated, I loved ... Read on »
Learning to love my ugly by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living After writing the tear-laden post last night, Rascal called, as he normally does. I was feeling better, after venting all of those ugly feelings, and he was in a very good mo ... Read on »
Ugly in the Silence by T Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Healthy Living I can be so ugly at times.*sigh* One of the challenges I've noticed with a long distance relationship is how Rascal and I both react to silence. We text in the mornings or sh ... Read on »